Ah, so you believe that callow, pleasure-seeking playboy wasn't you. Perhaps it wasn't, but you can't deny that you enjoyed playing the part.

And what of her? Do you know her as well as you know yourself?

Most of us accept that we can't change, and yet we love to indulge in the fantasy that we can change someone else. That we can be the one who opens her them up, dives inside them like a pensive and gives them everything that they every wanted.

If you know that such a thing will never happen, then the two of you may actually stand a chance.